Contentment and Dry January.

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Today is January 1st 2017 and I have made the momentous decision to take a little break from the booze.  We love our wine and gin but even we admit it will do us good to get some water down our necks – especially after a ‘heavy’ Christmas.
Its something I always consider doing each year but normally the prospect of January without anything fun to do, with it’s cold weather and short days is such a miserable thought that I always suspend all such silly ideas and decide to take it easy instead (but definitely NOT quit!)
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This year though, its different.  Living in France it’s hard to avoid wine, but saying ‘no’ doesn’t make me feel like I am missing out.  I love my home and my town and I no longer need to find things to cheer me up or entertain me. Its the difference between being happy with your life and wanting to escape it all the time.  Instead, I plan to spend January drinking herbal tea and enjoying living in this amazing place.
So, as I write this.  I am sitting in Heathrow Airport, about to return home after a wonderful couple of weeks with my family in the UK and I feel content and satisfied.  I’m not sad that the holidays are over or that I have to return to reality, because reality is where I am happiest.
This realisation has allowed me to address some things. Years ago, when I was earning plenty of money and could afford expensive dresses and nights out, I used to envy people who had a more simple life.   Those people seemed to be content with fewer and less expensive things.  They didn’t seem to feel like they were missing out – yet they had far less than me and little ability to obtain as much as I could.  They seemed happy with their lot and had no need to augment it – except to just take a little time now and then to go for a walk or enjoy a cup of tea.  Interestingly, it took a cup of coffee, while sitting in a pub at Heathrow Airport for me to appreciate exactly how happy I now am.
Will Dry January last forever?  Unlikely.  In fact, impossible.   I have already given myself a pass to enjoy a glass or two of wine when a friend visits later in the month – but I will go straight back on the wagon and continue to enjoy a booze free month.  Now. Pass the Pukka!
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